Kiss the Vagina
If there is a gene for foreplay, I was born without it.
{Allowing time for snarky jokes.}
But every man was born without such a thing, because foreplay is a learned skill, not something innate. What we guys are created with is an over-riding curiosity about women's bodies, a field of inquiry that I can imagine lasts until death.
Foreplay, however, is rather more than a game of doctors and nurses (as much fun as that might be). In a way, it is close to the pinnacle of a relationship between a man and a woman, in that it involves trust, sensitivity, humility, communication, feedback, patience and hopefully, humour.
That's the theme for this week: how men can be better at foreplay.
Foreplay Part 2.
Foreplay Part 3.
Foreplay Part 4.
8 comments:
Love Coupling! I think the Americans tried to make some god awful version of it that didn't do well...
As for foreplay. It's highly underrated. Granted there are times when a quicky without any pre-fun is the only think I want, most of the time I want some build up. I think foreplay classes should be an elective in university... or a mandatory course.
It is definitely an underrated thing! Often people don't realise what an investment foreplay is: it might take some extra time and effort, but it pays off with much better results in the end!
Oh, I like Coupling! Whatever happened to that series?
You're right TFABS, I forgot. NBC tried and failed at Coupling. It was horrid.
If classes on foreplay were mandatory in uni, could we call them Women's Studies? And would male enrollment soar, or what?
Sara, that's just what I'm planning to demonstrate! Foreplay is an investment, better and safer than most US banks!
The Beeb wanted a fifth series, Jenny, but the cast couldn't be coralled, apparently.
How men can be better at foreplay.
Hmm.
Between any man and woman, is this an 80/20 thing?
As in, 80 percent of foreplay coming down to how attracted the woman is to the man, to the way he kisses, what he says and how, his touch, natural rhythms, etc.?
The remaining 20 percent being things that can be learned?
And hey, Wombat, you and billions of other men might not have been born with 'a gene' for foreplay, but apparently you were born with some kind of heavy genetic loading for wit.
For lots of women, a man's words are an important part of foreplay.
See?
Your 80% already has an advantage.
Wow, well that changes matters, Doc.
Wit and wordplay can form that large a percentage of foreplay?
Fantastic.
On reflection, it makes sense. The way to a woman's heart is through her head. (To mix a non-surgical metaphor.)
Men probably miss this important point: we are intensely visually driven, women are not. It's a classic case of putting oneself in the other person's shoes. What turns her on? Like you say, creating a word picture with humour and connected conversation is the best way to start something with that someone special.
So, guys, foreplay can be as easy as a chat.
Foreplay is king in our home. It's a gene I was blessed with and sometimes foreplay alone is enough for my wife and I. Great post!
More people should give more attention to their spouse through foreplay. It shows you are more into them then you are yourself.
This is basically a sensitive thing. You should take care of it on the proper time.
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