Nymphomania

Nymphomania is more or less the same as insatiability, I guess, although there must be some degree of difference. Perhaps insatiables do it with one person, and nymphomaniacs do it with anyone.
Whatever it is, I hope that the word is no longer a term of approbation. Nymphomania used to have the clinical descriptor 'furor uterinus' whereas thesedays it's called 'hypersexuality'. It's still considered an abnormality, but it's one you can wear on your sleeve.
I knew a girl once who was a sort of oral nymphomaniac. She wouldn't engage in intercourse with any one but a steady boyfriend, but she'd happily fellate any fella who asked. She turned up at my place one night, late, jumped into bed with me, had her way and left. If that sounds like a Hustler letter, it's not meant to, because it's true.
I think it was a hobby - instead of a notch on her bedpost, she had another swallow.
Whatever. None of the guys I knew who were in the 'Kate Club' considered her a nympho, and in fact we all conducted regular social intercourse with her. It was just her thing. Indeed, had she been a full-blown all-out nympho, we'd never use the word as a pejorative - we'd just want a piece of the action.
But maybe that's just my experience. I wonder if women with strong sex-drives are still feared by men, rather than seen as someone to whom the red-blooded man introduces himself.
Bottoms Up, Nymphos!












10 comments:
The biggest issue guys tend to have with sexual women is based on jealousy. They're worried that her open sexuality will mean she will sleep with other men even if they were in a committed relationship. Probably biologically ingrained re: cuckolding. I don't consider jealousy a positive characteristic in anyone, but it's interesting to note that girls have internalized this criteria and will go out of their way to tell me that they're practically virgins, as if that'll help their case.
I completely agree with this post as far as my own opinion goes. A girl who likes sex and pursues it with people she's comfortable with is ridiculously sexy, and much more capable of pulling me into a relationship than the "thinking of England" girls.
Yes, women with strong sex-drives are still feared by men. Some men just want everything to be like the good ol' days where the man gets a handshake for a hook-up and the lady gets called a hussy.
(Those men do not read my blog)
That's interesting about your friend. I wonder, if by not having intercourse and only sticking to oral, she was justifying her strong sex-drive in her head.
Jealousy is an emotion. It's neither good or bad.
Some people behave badly when feeling this emotion and that gives it a bad rap. Not wanting to share what is ours is pretty normal. Did you know that a considerable amount of a mans sperm is dedicated to slowing down another man's sperm? Heck, some of it is even programmed to try and plug the cervex. So this nature to become jealous with a woman is as deeply ingrained in us as the desire to live and assure we live on through offspring. A 'promiscuous' woman only makes that assurance more difficult. So, in general, most guys respond to the feeling of jealousy in a poor manner and they may not even know why they are doing it.
I think men want a woman who's a "slut" — with him only. Not out of fear, though.
Oh, sure — we want to parade our hottie around ("Looky what I have") but we don't want to share, unless we can watch, of course ...
;-)
The problem comes when the nympho falls in love, and becomes the unsatiable.
While it is every man's dream to have a woman who "wants it" 10 times a day and 24/7 at least.... it doesn't take too long before this turns from "woo hoo!" to "again? do i have to?"
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There is nothing sexier than a woman who is willing to go after what she wants and enjoys herself. There is also nothing guaranteed to get her called bad names and thought of in a derogatory manner.
Fawkes, I enjoy reading your thought on this and other matters. Funny you should mention the 'Thinking of England' girls. They inspired me to write this post. I should revisit that subset of womanhood too.
Yes, the Hussy Syndrome, you found the zeitgeist there Snaf. It is a lame hangover of some previous age that we don't recognize the female drive for what it is. Odd how we swallow these generalizations and stories as a society and as individuals.
So true, Mr Nights, that men respond poorly when jealous. Been there myself, but now find myself, Zenlike, calm, in the moment, blah blah blah Namaste.
I had no idea sperm were such competitive wee bastards. They plug the cervix!?! OMG! Such talent in ones so small.
Well, that's true of me, Kat. Monogamous whorage - it's just the ticket. But I'm not that into watching, although I guess it's worth a try, right?
Not having been in that position, Epskee, I take your word for it. I do wonder if there's a way to slightly romance-up the insatiability...make it more of a dance of the seven veils than a fairground ride? Rough analogies, but illustrative enough.
Hmm..I would look at it another way. She was probably depressed and couldn't afford medication so was trying to get as much sperm in her body as possible. :) No joke. Sperm IS an antidepressant! Look it up people!
Sperm and semen, or just the wrigglies, BlueBabe?
Gosh, there's a challenge for a bright young bloke...find a depressed woman and offer to come in her mouth for her own good.
It's not for me, kitten, it's for you.
Woman which lead harlot life.Prostitute.Hypocrite man, dirty.Harlot is woman which sleeping with different men to receive something.Pity us, men, we are amazing beings, but we are forced to live in a world full of whores.Being a bitch, is more, a certain attitude combined with more guts exceeded certain limits and without measure.In general, under the title of slut is perceived female person who maintain sexual relationships with different males, in order to obtain money or benefits of any kind, woman who offers his services in exchange for other services, one can not have one...has more.Whore go to bed with anyone for anything. Whore is a person who sells honesty and moral integrity. Whore cancel sense measure, whore invade perverted places where, of common sense, was not what to look for, bitch is imposter that do not accept tips, gives them.Bitch is a term that depends only and only character, and, indirectly, education. Education that have not been able to give him life or parents.Whores is womens with strong sex-drives
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